Today is Thursday, January 15th, 2004; Karen's Korner #219

Taken from a "Mr. Mom" daily email:

 

Taking a Trip . .

I had not really planned on taking a trip this time of year,
and yet I found myself packing rather hurriedly.
This trip was going to be unpleasant and I knew in advance
that no real good would come of it.

I'm talking about my annual "Guilt Trip."
I got tickets to fly there on "WISHIHAD" airlines.

It was an extremely short flight.
I got my baggage, which I could not check.
I chose to carry it myself all the way.
It was weighted down with a thousand memories . . . of what might have been.

No one greeted me as I entered the terminal
to the Regret City International Airport.
I say international because people from all over the world come to this
dismal town.

As I checked into the Last Resort Hotel,
I noticed that they would be hosting the year's most important event,
the Annual Pity Party.
I wasn't going to miss that great social occasion.

Many of the towns leading citizens would be there.
First, there would be the Done family. . .
you know, Should Have, Would Have and Could Have.

Then came the I Had family.
You probably know ol' Wish and his clan.
Of course, the Opportunities would be
present, Missed and Lost.

The biggest family would be the Yesterday's.
There are far too many of them to count,
but each one would have a very sad story to share.
Then Shattered Dreams would surely make an appearance.
And It's Their Fault would regale us with stories (excuses)
about how things had failed in his life,
and each story would be loudly applauded by
Don't Blame Me and I Couldn't Help It.

Well, to make a long story short,
I went to this depressing party ...
knowing that there would be no real benefit in doing so.
And, as usual, I became very depressed.

But as I thought about all of the stories
of failures brought back from the past,
it occurred to me that all of this trip
and subsequent "pity parties" could be canceled by ME!


I started to truly realize that I did not have to be there.
I didn't have to be depressed.

One thing kept going through my mind.
I CAN'T CHANGE YESTERDAY,
BUT I DO HAVE THE POWER
TO MAKE TODAY A WONDERFUL DAY.

I can be happy,
joyous,
fulfilled,
encouraged,
as well as encouraging.

Knowing this, I left the City of Regret immediately
and left no forwarding address.

Am I sorry for mistakes I've made in the past? YES!
But there is no physical way to undo them.
So, if you're planning a trip back to the City of Regret,
. . . please cancel all your reservations now.

Instead, take a trip to a place called, Starting Again.
I liked it so much ...
that I have now taken up permanent residence there.

My neighbors ...
the I Forgive Myself and the New Starts
are so very helpful.
By the way, you don't have to carry around heavy baggage,
because the load is lifted from your shoulders upon arrival.

God bless you in finding this great town.
If you can find it . . . it's in your own heart
. . . please look me up.


I live on I CAN DO IT street.


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